Friday, February 17, 2012

Let's ~

Long time no blog post!

This is going to be a mish-mash of various topics, each beginning with the contraction "let's" which is ubiquitous in Japanese English learning, speaking, and writing. So without further ado, let's begin. Oh dang, see what I did there?

Let's Talking About Love!

February 14th was Valentine's day in Japan, and believe it or not, it's actually quite a common practice adopted in Japan. There are some MAJOR differences, however, to what you think Valentine's day means, and what a Japanese person thinks Valentine's day means. For starters, in Japan, Valentine's day is all about women showing their affection (or rather obligation) to men. What do I mean?

Well, in Japan, on Valentine's day, the expectation is that a woman will give chocolate to men. The types of chocolate is broken into two kinds. The first, called "Giri-choco" basically means obligation chocolate. This is given to coworkers and other male acquaintances to whom the girl has no love interest in. It is usually cheap, ordinary chocolate which simply means "I acknowledge our friendship or working relationship." The other kind (the kind that every man wants to get), is called "Honmei choco" and that basically means love chocolate. Lot's of girls go through meticulous hours of baking and decorating their own sweets, candies, chocolates, and cakes for their love interest(s). If they don't decide to make something, they usually buy a really nice gift box costing an absurd amount of money. While I don't know for sure, I would guess that most girls only give this kind of chocolate to one or two guys at most.

On the guys end of things, you pretty just have to sit back and watch the chocolate come at you. There is no expectation or obligation that you will give anything on Valentine's day. Moreover, gifts, dates, and other related things that you would normally associate to Valentine's day are not widely popular here. It's all about giving chocolate to men if you're a woman, and getting chocolate from women if you're a man.

(Unless you're me. I was hoping to at least get some giri-choco from select teachers and students, and deep down, of course I was hoping for some Honmei-choco from a certain someone or two... but alas, I received not even a single piece of chocolate.)

Next, we jump forward to a date which means nothing to the Western world: March 14th. This day is called "White Day" and it is the day on which men are to return the favor to the women that they received chocolate from. If he received Giri-choco, a simple offering of basic chocolate is a sufficient return gift. However, when receiving Honmei-choco, the man is (according to the general consensus) supposed to return a gift which he estimates to be around 3 times the value of the gift that he originally received. His return gift can be chocolate, but depending on the level of the relationship, it can also be other things such as: jewelry, a date, and even lingerie.

(And, on the grass-is-always-greener side of life, because I didn't receive any chocolates in the the first place, I have none to return! Yippie! Although, there is a small chance that I might give something to someone anyway, as I honestly have nothing to lose.)

Before we go on to the next "Let's" topic... I should mention that I think Japan's view towards Valentine's day is slowing approaching to what we think Valentine's day is in America. It's still rare, but not totally out of the picture, for men to give chocolate to women, singles to ask another out on a date, etc.

Finally, I will leave you with 2 videos. The first is the most popular singing group in Japan performing the most popular Valentine's day song in Japan (they are called AKB 48, and the song is called "Valentine Kiss"), and the second is a commercial for my local grocery store (it's advertising a cooking show for women on making Valentine's goodies - with who is quite arguably the hottest mom in town):






Let's Eating School Lunch!

Because I'm a municipal JET (meaning I'm hired directly by my Board of Education), I get the joys of a little thing called School Lunch. Other JETs (who are hired by the Prefecture [or state]) generally don't get such a luxury.

You may be thinking, "Ew! School lunch! That stuff is nasty!" Not so in Japan my friend, not so. In fact, school lunch in Japan is everything you want it to be: amazingly delicious, incredibly nutritious, satisfyingly filling, and fantastically inexpensive. Each meal consists of 4 dishes and some sort of milk or yogurt to compliment. The four dishes, quite generally, are:

  1. Rice (replaced by bread on Wednesdays)
  2. Some sort of meat or pasta dish (For the meats: fish and chicken are common - pork and beef on occasion; for the pasta: think ramen, udon, or western spaghetti type foods)
  3. A vegetable or fruit dish
  4. A soup dish (usually a variant on the traditional miso soup)
All this, for under ~$3... amazing! I truely look forward to it everyday, and it's one thing that I already know that I'm going to sorely miss when I leave my job here.

Well, that's enough TALKING about school lunch, so now, let me show you the magic that is Japanese school lunch:















Let's Taking a Bus Ride!

Out of the five workdays, on three of them I stay at one school the entire day. This happens at my big Elementary School and both my Junior Highs. In total, I teach at 7 schools (2 JHS and 5 ES), and because I go to every school every week, this leaves 4 schools for the remaning two days. What ends up happening on these days is: I go to one school in the morning and teach the 5th and 6th graders, then I eat my sacred school lunch, and then I hop on a bus to get to the next school (at which I also teach the 5th and 6th grade).

This is annoying at times, but it's really not that bad. What it ends up doing is giving me free time to kind of do whatever I want, because all that really matters is that I make it to the next school by the start of the next period. Nobody really cares what I do in between, so long as I'm where I'm supposed to be when class starts and as long as I have a lesson planned. Anyway, I digress.

This transfer happens every Tuesday and Friday. On Fridays (today), the bus ride is gorgeous. The bus drives through an EXTREMELY set of narrow streets in a town that is locked between the ocean and a mountain (unfortunately, I didn't capture this harrowing part in the video below). When it emerges from the town (about where this video starts), it ends up on a road which is basically at ocean level, with the ocean on one side of the road and a giant mountain on the other. There is very little else (save for a few houses and shops sprinkled here and there) along this road which is sometimes barely big enough for two cars to pass on. In fact, in this video, there are occasions when the bus stops or slows dramatically in order to allow oncoming traffic to pass. There are even one or two times when the bus honks once to thank the other driver.

Also, it is not uncommon for the driver of a moving vehicle to BOW in the car WHILE DRIVING.

Here is a map of the route the bus takes in the video:


Point A on the map is where the bus starts (at an ES called Hikimoto) and the destination is Point B (an ES called Yaguchi). Hikimoto has about 50 students, and Yaguchi has about 30; at Yaguchi, my 5th grade class has a whopping 2 students - 1 boy and 1 girl.

Also, around the area with all the stars and the train station called Aiga is my town. The Pacific Ocean pretty much starts right below point A, so as you can see, my town is right on the water (although we are surrounded almost exclusively by mountains).

Okay, here's the bus ride video: 


(CHALLENGE: See if you can hear the bus announce that the next stop is Yaguchi a short bit before I push the button to stop!)

Let's Learning the Tea Ceremony!

I recently went to a Tea Ceremony event held by my local international society. The tea ceremony leader also happens to be an English tutor in the town about 25 minutes north of me, so she switched back and forth throughout the entire presentation.

I had no idea the press would be there, but as it turns out I ended up being in the newspaper and on the local TV station again. In the interview, I talking about something called Seiza (pronounced say-za), which is basically sitting on top of both your legs with your feet being pushed in underneath your rear end (like you see everyone doing in the video). Any more than 5 minutes of it is torture. We did it for about 30 minutes during the Tea Ceremony presentation, and by the time I had to stand up.... well, I couldn't. It was unlike any other sensation I've experience before - I was paralyzed from the waste down. After hitting my legs really hard (so hard, that it normally would have hurt) for about a minute, I attempted to stand, only to immediately collapse and fall on my side. It was quite comical.

Anyway, you get the idea. Here is the video:


Let's Finishing!

Okay, I'm getting tired of typing. Soooo, that'll wrap up this blog! I hope you enjoyed, and I hope to write another one soon! Have a great day in your corner of the world!

JJ

PS: Please forgive what I'm sure are numerous spelling/grammar mistakes. I will go back and correct them later... (and using the structure "Let's  ~____ing" as each section's header was not a mistake...)

Friday, January 20, 2012

As Days Go By...

To think I've been here 6 months! Absurd! Unbelievable! Crazy!

There are times when I really have to stop myself and say "Dang dude, you live in Japan!" I've been surrounded with such nice people and (mostly) good kids that I really feel like this is a home away from home. Lately it has started to seem so much like home that the natural beauty which used to leave me breathless on a daily basis has lost a lot of its appeal. In fact, a large part of the honeymoon period that most people experience upon arrival in Japan has slowly worn off. I am thankful though that I never truly experienced any culture shock or homesickness (save for a very brief period shortly after arriving).

However, on my walk to work this morning, for one reason or another, I was once again taken aback by my surroundings and decided to take this short video:



Granted it's been really ugly here all day (and raining almost non-stop), but it was still quite beautiful. 

Changing gears - I've been just as busy as ever. This weekend I'm going north to Iga (famous for being the birth place of the Ninja and a well-known castle). Next weekend I'm going to Nagoya to see a pretty spectacular light display. The following weekend there will be a big festival in Owase (the big-ish city just south of me) in which the town splits into 2 teams and have a friendly "brawl". Then the next weekend I'm probably going to head South to the Shingu area of Wakayama to hang out with other JETs and celebrate their birthdays. Haha - so yeah, that makes my next free weekend somewhere in mid to late February...  I guess I can't really complain though. It is pretty nice to always have something to do and people to see/hang out with. 

My school schedule is also pretty busy. I teach anywhere from 19 to 22 classes a week (with only about 7 or 8 of these being at Junior High). The rest are all at my 5 Elementary schools, meaning I'm usually running the show for the full 45 minutes of class. These classes are all pretty well-behaved (save for 1 or 2 "bad" classes), but everything is done at full volume and with high energy. This of course results in some very fun, rewarding, and ultimately exhausting days. 

Sometimes I find myself wishing I taught at fewer schools... but my situation is really not that bad. Five out of seven of my schools all have less than 60 students, so it's not that hard to learn the names of the kids at those schools. And I'm VERY fortunate that my furthest schools are only a 10 minute bus ride away. Other JETs that I know have schools that take 40 minutes to get to! Some even have to take a taxi to get to their schools because there are no buses.

*****

In other news, I have long since signed my recontracting papers - meaning I will be here at least until July 2013. But I'm kind of already planning to be here 3-4 years. At this point, when I return to America I want to attend graduate school but (as is life) these plans are subject to change.

Staying in Japan will give me the opportunity to save a lot of money, but at the same time it has me worried about a few things:

  1. Driving... I have not driven a car in 6 months. If I don't end up getting a car during my stay here, I worry about having to "learn" to drive all over again.
  2. My English... It's getting worse. Constantly having to dumb down your English so that others around you can *hopefully* understand does not bode well for becoming a graduate student.
  3. Time... It's not on my side. If I stay four years that means I will come back to America as a 27 year-old. Add to that 3-4 years for graduate school and... BAM! I'll already be in my 30s. Where does a wife and kid(s) fit into that???
Maybe these are things that I really shouldn't be worried about as a soon-to-be 24 year-old... but they do creep into my thoughts every now and again.

Anyway, I haven't got much else to share for this post. So, here are some pictures!

Enjoy! And ttyl!

A gathering of (almost) all the JETs that live near me.

I bought a couch! It doubles as a bed and has all sorts of cool features.

View out my hotel room in Tsu (the capital of my prefecture [state]) 

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Pretty Places

That last blog, upon a second reading, came off a little depressing. It was not intended to be so... it was simply a way for me to vent some of the frustrations that come with life in a foreign country.

The feelings I expressed in that blog are really only how I feel maybe ~5% of the time. So make no mistakes: 95% of the time, I love everything about my life here. I have great neighbors and friends, my supervisor is incredibly nice, I love my new house, and my work is almost always enjoyable. I would be lying if I said everything was perfect - nothing in life is. But things here are as close to ideal as they could be.

All that said, please enjoy these pretty pictures from my trip to Kobe/Osaka/Kyoto during Christas Eve as well as other pictures from a hike I did today (please note - you can click any picture to see an enlarged version of it):

Kyoto Station is really something else

Kyoto Tower

Artwork from 1st Graders on the bus in Kyoto

Entrance to Kinkakuji Temple (The Golden Temple)

And there it is!

It's really pretty

Kinkakuji

This bird adorns the top of the temple

Kinkakuji

Kinkakuji

Kinkakuji

Kinkakuji

This one is called Kiyomizu - its extremely famous

Kiyomizu

Part of Kiyomizu

I drank from this stream to receive a blessing of good health

A street at night in Kyoto - restaurants here are by invitation/connections only

Kabuki theater

A river runs through Kyoto at night

Xmas eve was slightly crowded in Kyoto

The rest of the photos are from my hike near my hometown.

A small waterfall along the path

A small shrine along the path

Part of the path on the way up (looking back)

The way up

Slowly getting steeper....

A small respite on the way up

Giant rock! Right in our way!

View of Owase city as we ascend

Slowly getting more and more difficult...

...but nevertheless gorgeous!

Another nice view near the top by the radio tower

Dont mind the wires from the radio tower lol

Click this one to see this awesome panorama from the peak!!!! Its amazing!

At the top! The view was incredible. We had lunch on this rock.

Contemplating life

Hello there, sir!

A bit steep on the way down...

Another little shrine on the way down
Hope you enjoyed this picture bonanza!
See you next time!

JJ

Sunday, December 25, 2011

It's Christmas!...

There is no denying that I've always been a fairly independent person. From my rebellious teenage years to my almost infamous inability to show/express deep affection, it can easily be said that I am usually quite content to be by myself and do my own thing. It's a large part of who I am, though I oftentimes wish this wasn't the case - for I feel that others may misinterpret it as me not caring/feeling.

Thinking along these lines, I chose to stay in Japan for Christmas. Up until now, this decision hadn't bothered me. It was just today, Christmas Day, that I realized that this was my very first Christmas day completely alone. But that's not to say that I was miserable. I kept myself entertained and in the spirit by listening to Christmas songs by Johnny Mathis and The Carpenters (as they remind me most of childhood & Christmas at home).

However, today I realized one really important thing: that while I like Japan, the culture, and the people I have met, there is no one in Japan that I LOVE. I feel VERY strongly towards some of the people who have gone way out of their way to help me, my taiko group, my JET friends, and a few other people. But even still, there's always that slight feeling of being on the outside and looking in (whether due to me being a foreigner or not being able to understand 90% of the things that are being said to/around me).

On Christmas Eve I was fortunate enough to be able to hang out with a nice Japanese girl (and her sister & sister's husband) who speaks English really well. I had a really good time, but with Christmas Eve pretty much being the equivalent to Valentines Day in America I wasn't exactly sure how I was to act or what I was supposed to say/do. We went to Osaka, Kobe, and Kyoto and I had a really fun time, but it was also a slap-in-the-face reminder of not only how gloriously single I am (and likely will remain), but also of my inability to comprehend such a complex social situation through the lens of Japanese culture.

All of this combined has served to remind me just how much i LOVE my family, my friends, and my home. I truly miss each and every one of you, and I do regret that I am not there with you on Christmas day. I hope that everyone on my Dad's side enjoyed the usual Christmas Eve together, and I really wish I could have been there for the always entertaining white elephant. On my Mother's side, I hope everyone enjoys the amazing food that mother always makes, and I really regret that I won't be getting a present from uncle Bob this year (as it is one that always keeps me on-my-toes, and it's one I look forward to every year).

Lastly, to all my family and friends back home: I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! May the food be good and the company better! Relax, have a good time, be safe, and most importantly, enjoy each others love and companionship.

With love always,
Jordan